Why do some families get better with each generation, while others decline? In fact, the rise and fall of a family is not without warning signs, but there are traces to follow. If a family is always unable to get rich, there are likely to be the following five reasons, even if you have one, you should be careful and pay attention to it. First, the elders only care about themselves. If a family wants to prosper, it can never be completed by one generation, but by the support of generations. If the elders in the family only care about enjoying themselves, never consider their children's education, do not study themselves, and do not plan their children's growth, then the children can only start from scratch and repeat the detours of their parents. And these people, when they are old, have no savings in their hands, and in turn use filial piety to kidnap their children, accusing them of being unpromising and unsuccessful. Such families will only infinitely continue poverty. If a family wants to get better and better, the premise of being prosperous for a long time is to do a good job of passing on and leading. The elders should set an example to prevent staying in the bottom layer, so that each generation can stand on the shoulders of the previous generation and continue to move forward. Second, relatives tear down each other. As the saying goes, supporting each other makes for a good show. Tearing each other down leads to collapse together. As the smallest unit of society, the family can only walk steadily and far if they think in the same direction and work together. But if the brothers and sisters in the family act independently, and only compare each other and look down on each other every time they meet, and resources cannot be accumulated, and energy cannot be focused, then this family will soon fall apart, let alone a prominent family. Third, family members only ask for things. A poor family only has the words wait, rely, and ask for in their dictionary. When encountering difficulties, they never think about doing anything, but think that waiting will make things better. Rely on parents when young, rely on partners when married, and rely on children when old. They always feel that everyone owes them, I am poor, I am justified, I am weak, I am justified, and they will become angry if they don't get what they want. These people never reflect on themselves, and always feel that they are right. If the whole family is trapped in such logic, then they will never get out of the vicious circle of poverty. Fourth, there is no correct view of money, the poorer the family #Alkanes
