【Finding it uncomfortable to seek help, one can only progress】#Human Relationships

If you feel that you are not good at doing something or dislike someone, out of self-protection, you will avoid them.

In reality, you need to deal with the people you dislike, say things that go against your own will, which can help you strengthen your inner spiritual world.

A friend of mine told me that a relative lent him 200,000, intending to help him have his own house.

After that, he became very afraid of meeting that person because, afterward, he would often be pressured and questioned about why he spent the money in other places but did not repay it on time.

So, he is fearful and does not dare to interact, intentionally avoiding.

This is a manifestation of a weak inner spiritual world. The person who lent you money naturally hopes that you will repay it sooner, but more importantly, they hope that you appreciate their goodwill and keep it in mind; essentially, they seek some emotional value.

If you not only fail to repay but also do not understand how to maintain relationships by offering small favors, it can only be said that you do not understand the concept of human relationships.

Therefore, let your spiritual and physical worlds grow stronger; you must push yourself to actively engage in things you dislike, deal with people you fear, and say things that go against your own will.