The reason people come close to you is because you have value. The reason they distance themselves from you is because you are no longer important. The deepest essence of human nature is selfishness and loneliness. Once you understand this, you will no longer cling to seeking things from the outside, you will no longer rely on anyone, and you will no longer overestimate your position in others' hearts. Life is just an experience; school, work, marriage, and even illness and death are merely scenes along the journey. Accept everything that happens, allow regrets, allow failures, allow the unpredictability of life, and even allow yourself to be unliked, as this is the only way to find true inner freedom. The exterior may not be perfect, but it does not hinder the nobility of the soul. Strive to be virtuous in your own world, and adapt naturally in others' worlds, especially do not compete with loved ones, whether they are parents, partners, or children. They are the closest people to you; do not let small matters provoke anger that hurts each other's feelings. Being critical of loved ones is human instinct, but overcoming this instinct is a form of cultivation. Learn to reconcile with yourself, accept your imperfections, and let the past be the past. Why is the windshield much larger than the rearview mirror? Because the road ahead is more important than the road behind. In our lives, what we should learn the most is not to earn money, nor to beautify ourselves, but rather the ability to make ourselves happy regardless of the storms we encounter. We cannot choose our birth, but the only thing that allows us to live our lives well is the ability to regulate our own emotions. This world seems colorful and complex, but essentially it is your own world. The wind listens to the wind, the rain listens to the rain; life is an experience, and we should enjoy it to the fullest.
