Judging or criticizing others is a waste of energy. Show understanding for their point of view, compassion for their situation, acceptance of who they are and above all, love.
If you believe the world is a hostile place, it will be. If you believe the world is a friendly, loving and abundant place, it will be.
Don't wait for the perfect moment – you have to jump and build your parachute on the way down. As the Zen proverb goes,
