It seems that from the very beginning, dating has always been an easy thing for me. The difficult part is having a long-lasting relationship and experiencing emotions.

From knowing each other to falling in love, the time can be very short, short enough that a single glance is enough.

It can also be very long, so long that lying in the contacts for years or decades without saying a word. Then one day, a comment sparks the beginning of the story...

In the initial stage of understanding, the core issue is 'attraction.' Different age groups and different life experiences lead to different feelings.

It's like finding a project that looks pretty good. Then you gradually understand it through the process...

Once there is 'attraction,' you will further delve deeper. The topics of conversation might also increase, no longer limited to certain views on things, talking about everything from specific matters, work, life, to love. Slowly, one day you realize you seem to be caught up in a dialogue with this person~

Then you will reassess this person, this relationship, and the possible developments that may follow...

Here are two scenarios:

1. Stop here, if it feels wrong, change your batch 🙄

2. Quickly, the relationship escalates into 'ambiguity'—an endless 'pulling' process.

The beginning of love, probably the most unforgettable and the most repeatedly tormenting part, is this segment~

After this stage, the progress has actually reached over 90%, and the final step lies in the 'pulling' and the 'feelings' you have established for each other before.

A YES or NO story.

Learn it! Finally, let me borrow a line from Teacher Cai Lan: Practice more in dating, how to practice?

Take ugly pictures! 🤣