Everyone views the world through their own biases; I hope my biases are beneficial to you.
You are afraid to try and afraid to put yourself in that painful, passive learning environment, because any environment that forces you to learn passively is painful. You are just cowardly; you are a softie — (Lu Da Mo)
This circle is indeed like this; many people add me or countless KOL bloggers, 99% are looking to freeload to obtain the 'get rich quick' secrets, rather than sincerely learning, observing, pondering, and deeply researching their money-making methods.
If you want to achieve stable profits, you must first ask yourself: what can you give to achieve stable profits? Time? Energy? Money? Countless failures? Not to mention one year, two years, three years...