The main paradox and complexity of the profession 'trader' lies in the fact that in order to start making money in your relationship with trading, you must stop being the main player. You must fully submit to the 'will' of your trading system (TS) and become its slave. This thought is very difficult to comprehend and even harder to accept.
The problem is that by nature, we always strive for control and predictability. These are normal basic incentives for any person. In ordinary life, they help overcome difficulties, develop, and achieve greater heights. But in trading, such a struggle for control leads to complete failure. Because in such a construction, a person takes everything personally. Every losing or winning trade is perceived as a personal defeat or victory, causing emotions and triggering tilt states. These are what most often lead to the depletion of the deposit.
We can only solve this problem in one way – by shifting the responsibility for the trading result onto our trading system. We need to agree with ourselves that in this game, you are not the main player. You are just a simple executor who follows the orders of the boss. Orders for us are the rules of the trading system.
Friends, if you are interested in this topic, give feedback in the comments – I will tell you in the next posts how to properly assemble a TS.