The market is taking off, who is actually making money?

The market has been soaring these past few days! ETH has reached 2500. I actually knew ETH would take off long ago; I got in when it was 3351. As a guardian of Ethereum, I'm ready to sit down for a meal. A friend's comment: 'Spot trading is not scary!' has led me to be fully invested in spot trading, with dozens of spot trades stuck in losses!