In engineering, my uncle who has dealt with politics and business all his life told me: no matter how complex this society becomes, it always remains fundamentally the same; what never changes is human nature. Every person who can achieve great things shares a common trait: they can see through human nature, are well-versed in manipulating people, and can stimulate desires. If you want your subordinates to follow you wholeheartedly, you must understand these principles.
1, regardless of gender, wise people will not be lecherous.
What can captivate someone must be a heavy heart of desire. Truly beautiful things please the body and mind, and do not confuse people.
Seeing the world is easy, seeing all beings is not difficult, but seeing oneself requires going through countless hardships.
The greatest discovery in life is finding your true self.
2, people nowadays are like pigs; everyone is selfish. As long as their own interests are not infringed, they only know how to bury their heads in making money, and the death of others has nothing to do with them.
Once they are hurt, they immediately scream in agony, as if crying to the heavens.
Then a big white bun was thrown over, and it immediately wilted again; when others called out, he still buried himself in eating and drinking.
3, in this world, there are talented poor people everywhere, they are highly knowledgeable and well-educated, but in the end, they are destitute and achieve nothing.
However, many who lack talent can achieve success and be in high spirits.
The biggest difference between people is not their background, education, wealth, or power, but a way of thinking.
4, you cannot change anyone, including your parents and siblings. Even if you live under the same roof, you are powerless. Unless the other party has the willingness to change, your efforts are in vain.
Remember, only you can change your own destiny.
5, six major hard truths you must understand in your lifetime:
1, feelings are worthless in the face of interests.
2, principles are worthless in the face of strength.
3, the process is worthless in the face of the result.
4, effort is worthless in the face of choices.
5, love is worthless in the face of reality.
6, regarding human nature, remember one thing: always keep a skeptical heart.
This is the key to never being hurt, because human nature is fickle and full of tricks.
When you decide to trust someone, you must always be prepared for the possibility of being betrayed.
And those who betray you are often the people closest to you.
7, there are no so-called jokes; all jokes contain serious elements.
There is no such thing as a harsh tongue with a soft heart.
Someone who speaks harshly to you likely has a harsh heart.
To be a ruthless person does not mean you cannot be kind, but that you understand the importance of making decisions at crucial moments.
Help when you should help, be cold when you should be cold; only then can you ensure that you remain kind without being deceived.
You must never be treated as a soft persimmon.
