When you reach a certain height, you will have a god's eye view.
Those who understand life prefer to be observers rather than performers. When a person reaches a certain realm, they will open up the god's eye view. At that time, the vast world you see is no longer bustling and prosperous, but rather filled with the suffering of all beings.
The world is full of suffering, and each has its own pain. Among all beings, everyone is a pitiful person, and everyone also has their own faults. The reason beings suffer is that they are trapped in ignorance, each one a slave to their desires, caught in the cages of their own weaving.
Why do we say that the wise do not fall in love?
Because when a person reaches a certain realm, it is difficult to fall in love with someone again, as love is a sense of admiration arising from information asymmetry. However, once you open up the god's eye view, this sense of admiration disappears. You will see that most people are pitiful individuals; many may seem glamorous on the surface, but when you delve deeper, you will discover that their hearts are riddled with wounds. You see that every heart of all beings longs to be understood, and every soul needs to be redeemed.