You are a participant in the play and at the same time you are acting in a detached way, noticing any movement in the environment.
You are offered something - do not hurry to refuse. You receive advice - try to reflect on it. Hear someone else's opinion - do not hurry to enter into a discussion.
It seems to you that someone is doing something wrong - well, let them. Circumstances have changed - no need to sound the alarm, try to accept the changes.
Whatever you do, act in the way that is easiest for you. When faced with a choice - favor the option that comes easier..... Let go of the world and watch it move.