All children who can break free from their original families are truly remarkable individuals.
Because they change the survival patterns of this family. All the pain, all the sorrow, all the disadvantages of this family end with them.
Such individuals find it far from sufficient to merely put in effort; the most impressive aspect is that they also have to overcome a series of psychological challenges brought about by their families, such as inferiority, panic, and sensitivity. In this process, they may experience depression and self-doubt, but in the end, they emerge and stand up again, shining brightly and glowing.
Why is it difficult to break through one's original family?
Because during the formative years of a person's character, they face insults, denial, and distortion; their entire cognitive thinking is chaotic, with no guidance from anyone, relying solely on themselves. It’s already impressive that they have not turned out badly; if they can make themselves even better, they are not ordinary people, but rather chosen ones.