In the real world, no matter how kind you are, when you lack value, even if you are like a gentle kitten, there will be people who dislike you for shedding.
At the same time, the core emotional bonding agent between people is not based on how much money you have, but on your personal value as a person! This value constitutes your bargaining chip, and it also determines whether you are qualified to sit at the poker table of life.
Chips are a reflection of value
Bargain is not just money, it can be wealth, power, professional ability, unique insights or skills. As long as you have one of them, you have the right to exchange for more opportunities and resources.