1: Be a playful father
Put down the father's pride and let go of other worries, focus on playing and having fun with your child. Not only can this establish a close parent-child relationship, but it also helps stimulate the child's enthusiasm.

2: Be a learning father
If you lie on the sofa playing with your phone, what you will get is a child who lies down playing with the phone and watching videos. Strive to be a learning father, because examples are more effective than scolding.

3: Be a resilient father
A father is the child's first role model, your resilience, tenacity, and sense of responsibility will be the best textbook.

4: Be a father who bends down
Loving children is an instinct, while respecting them is an upbringing. Bend down to understand their thoughts, respond to their needs, and accept their emotions; only then will children feel close to you, respect you, and have endless heartfelt conversations with you.

5: Be an understanding father
When children enter their rebellious phase, they often unconsciously oppose adults. In the family, fathers need to be patient to navigate and explain, informing each other how to act with a man's understanding.
A father's patience, warmth, and kindness can pull a rebellious and difficult child back from the edge.

6: Be a humble father
Do not view children's problems through colored glasses, do not constrain their thoughts with standard answers, acknowledging your shortcomings and recognizing the child's strengths is what makes a father truly wise.

7: Be a reasonable father
You must help your child understand reason, but do not just scold them harshly. Good fathers know how to guide children gently to discern right from wrong.

8: Be a "present" father
Psychologist Hu Shenzhi said that 90% of life's shortcomings come from the absence of paternal love.
Fathers are the ones who determine their children's personalities and lay the foundation for their life paths—fatherly guidance cannot be absent, nor can it be replaced.

9: Seven things dad can do with kids
① Play with blocks, remote control cars, crafts, and chess to develop intelligence through games.
② Read with children; bedtime stories are not just for mothers.
③ Engage in sports with your child to help cultivate a passion for a sport from a young age.
④ Take children out to activities, such as visiting the zoo, watching movies, or visiting museums to broaden their horizons.
⑤ Regularly take children to visit grandparents.
⑥ Sit down and have heart-to-heart talks with your child.
⑦ On mom's birthday, prepare gifts with your child, teaching them about gratitude and love.

10: Seven things dad must never say to children
① At this age, how can you be so inconsiderate?
② Don't ask so much, just do as I say!
③ Dad is busy; if you have something, ask your mom.
④ If you don't study well, do you believe I will hit you?
⑤ I won't care about you anymore; do as you please.
⑥ If you score 100 points, I will buy you something.
⑦ Fool, useless thing!
Put down your phone and spend more time with your child.